Speak of the devil, Tal....

It must be pretty darn cold outside today, 'cause H*ll just froze over -- my W responded to my email letter!

Surprise, surprise.

Here is her (rather terse) reply (edited to protect the innocent):

"Your words sound very good. But you still treat me like a mosquito. You didn't listen to my recommendation about how to time the payments from the joint bank account & you overdrafted it again. It bothers me. I bother you.
You acted like you resented my presence before we separated & I know that will just intensify as it has with other people you resent over the years & your job etc...... Why would I want to go back to that?"


I am giving this some time before crafting a reply -- or not sending a reply at all, if I so determine.

(The overdraft is a total non-issue -- the account has overdraft protection. I knew it was going to be close, but not that worried. I am not sure why she gets so upset about it -- other than her fumbling for some wedge issue to throw in my face. All part of the alien master plan to keep me on the defensive.)

I'm not falling for it anymore.


Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.