is he too young for MLC?

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So after he showed up for coffee he asked me to go to his appointments with him. We went to his C and Dr. together and then went shopping. He was in a positive mood after the appointments and was happy until late last night. He is moving into his own place this week-end. I'm trying to be strong with packing his stuff and giving him things from the house. He says it doesn't seem real to him if he only takes a few things at a time. I haven't prevented him from taking his stuff all at once he hasn't wanted to take it all.

When he left today he seemed sad. He told me that he didn't like the person he was yesterday morning or this morning and if he can't change that we can't be together. I am hoping that the moods have a lot to do with the way his meds are reacting to him. He had the doctor change them to something a little different yesterday so I guess I just have to be patient.

He is vey down on Christmas this year and wants to forget it all together. We have kids and I don't think that will be fair to them. i am trying to figure out what we can do together that will take the pressure off of him but still be good for the kids. Anybody have any suggestions?