I compromised with myself on this and the christmas issue. I texted her that I had to run to a meeting earlier (did not apoligize) and said that there have been changes regarding Christmas and that I wouild like to talk to her tonite about them.

I thought if she was mad because I ddin't talk to her she would see that I was busy, and if she didn't no big deal.

I should be called "THE RATIONALIZER" :-)