Glad to hear your finals are over and you can have a break. I know school must be tough while going through this too.
A lot of the things you say about your H just remind me so much of mine. Taking things personally, being prone to depression, competitive, me being a good influence on him...I could go on.
You shouldn't sacrifice anything you want to do to better yourself for him, especially right now. If you did you would only resent him later even if things work out. Keep working on yourself. If he has a problem with that (which I suspect he may feel inferior in a way as does my H) then it is his and not yours. Keep doing what you are doing. You sound great.
Is there anything new going on? Have you talked to him at all?
