Ok, then I'll just say it a bit more gently then and put it as Hairdog did and say, if you can expect and appreciate your W "just doing it" then you should do the same. "just do it" -- accept that she's not always going to say ok and move on and appreciate what you DO have.

I guess the way I see your "problem" and wondering how to deal w/ it is one of those "pick your battles" things

Last edited by RedHeadWife; 12/06/07 08:31 PM.
Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10