Ok, here's the deal, it sounds like your W is wiling to work on it with you so, to me, your question is quite silly.....Instead of being resentful, you should be thankful.
Indeed, I am quite thankful: my post was neither whining nor complaining. And from a rational point of view, I agree with your post completely. But telling someone to "man up" and shut off their feelings is unrealistic. I would prefer to choose not to act on those feelings and get past them as quickly as possible, hence my asking how others have handled this stage of the "recovery," if you will.
-- B.
Me 50, W 45, M for 26 yrs S25, D23, S13, S10 20+ year SSM; recovery began Oct 2007
