Ok, here's the deal, it sounds like your W is wiling to work on it with you so, to me, your question is quite silly. YOU too need to work on the M. I understand that you have had literally YEARS of rejection, however, if your W is truly trying to make changes in your sex life, you need to man up and accept it when she's truly not in the mood. You should count yourself lucky that your M seems to be improving in all areas, including your sex life. Instead of being resentful, you should be thankful.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
