WAW does not want to try

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hi DomR... seems like i get lots of advice from you on everyone elses threads... I apprecaite it!

I think it, but I'm quite sure I've never told my H that. I have been much more open about what I'm able to give and not able(since coming here). I thank him when i do see his efforts to understand what i'm feeling and able to give him. My biggest problem is i keep getting from him that he just wants his wife back. He wants me to be in love with him now. He wants me to be sexual with him like i used to. I just don't have it in me right now.

The point i wanted to make here is that, as a spouse that wants her M to work, but is going to be nervous and cautious, to be patient and not ask for the moon when you know she can't give it. it could make her think that her efforts are not good enough.

Maybe you could check out my sit and give me some advice there? you seem to really know what you are doing and have excellent ideas about how to approach all this stuff.