Thanks Sara, I am in the Orlando area, so I am not sure where it will be held. But I have hope that she will turn the corner and at least give it a shot. I am not sure why I feel this way, but I think that by mid-Jan we will be almost 4 months into this and it will be about the time that I hear about my new job transfer, so maybe the combination of events will help her to have some clarity about the decision.

I just hope that she has the opportunity to quiet her mind and heart and think this all out.

Thanks for all of your comments on this thread, you are certainly someone who is guiding many of us. I am so grateful that this experience has turned out different for your M that it may for some of us on here. Congratulations!

Me: 33 jacka** whom lied, stole, cheated, and basically treated DW like crap for years
DW: 29 kind soul who gave too much to me over the relationship

S7
S4

M: 7yrs
Bomb: 10/19
Seperated: 10/24

The worst reconciliation is better than the best divorce