congrats! that is wonderful that your W has shown remorse and a willingness to try. I haven't read your thread, but I suggest to make sure you don't fall back into your old habits. Continue to GAL for your self, which will in turn help keep up your PMA.
I would definitely read the 5LL... and maybe you can ask her if she'd like to read it with you?
The other books that I like....
For Women Only by Shaunti Feldham. Was very helpful in helping me understand men and knowing what I should or should not be doing for/to my H.
For Men Only by Shaunti Feldham. (haven't read this one, but since her book about men was so good, then surely her book about women will be even better... she IS a woman)
Also know that this road is tough too, but at least you have a common goal right now. Continue to have low expectations so your not let down or get upset if a problem arises.
I am excited for you!
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."