Maybe not too complicated to understand

[Michael Mc C]

You should of asked her "you wont stop your affair for the kids?"

I'm going to have to keep that one in mind! I'm sure this discussion is only just beginning.

I'm beginning to see a little more clearly why W has been so adamant about not going to counselling. She doesn't want to face reality, which is something she proves almost every day now. She doesn't want to have any of the guilt associated with this mess. In her mind everything is already perfectly wrapped up and there's no need to go messing with the ribbons.

And the OM is really starting to get on my nerves (go figure). He may be just as confused as she is but I'm starting to think it's a game to him. He knows that she's gone completely nuts for him and he doesn't have to do a damn thing about it. Whether or not he was looking he found a vulnerable woman and he is going to exploit her current foggy condition.

I simply can't imagine that he thinks this is a good decision on either of their parts.