Taking it day by day...

[Hurtin4certain]

Thanks Red... thats the kick in the pants I needed.

When I was 10 years old, my sister died in an auto accident. The tragedy messed me up for years after that. I think alot of my fear of abandonment stems from that incident in my life.

Ive been to counselors before and have felt better but I think that I will always be sensitive to issues concerning abandonment.

I also think it makes me sensitive to not abandoning other people. There were times when my W did stuff that for a lot of guys would be grounds for divorce, but that never entered my mind.

Sorry, just threw myself a pity party.