I just read your last post about W *daring* you to file. In that instance, I would. Why file for legal separation? You are either going to be D'd or not in the long run. Do it and see what she does? I would bet lots of $$$$ that if there is ANY chance that she is going to come back, that would be what would do it.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10