I'm seeing in all of your posts, whether on your own thread or others, that you are dwelling on your W. You are not allowing yourself to move ahead in any way. I'm not saying it's easy, but you need to pick yourself up and move on. You need to get it through to yourself that you need to be ok whether you get back together or not. You are just jogging in place right now and that's not going to get you anywhere. You are struggling b/c you are not even trying to move on. You are ALLOWING yourself to sit there & do nothing but think about "what if" etc.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
