The other thing my c told me is to stop obsessing. He said when you can stop obsessing on what the W is doing then you can be free to work on yourself. He says when you obsess your mind starts racing and all the negatives you are thinking your S is doing you will start to believe it and it makes you sick. just thought i would throw that out there.
Me 35 W 26 S 3 D 10 months I have custody Bomb 11/9/07 W PA 10/07 ended 2/08 Removed W from house 11/16/07 I filed in Nov. D put on hold http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1268484&page=6&fpart=16