Saffie's sandbox - Extension 9

[saffie]

We did get into a discussion a few months ago on someone's thread where things got really heated, (not between you and me but between you and someone else), and I remember it being quite scary, frightening and off putting for other posters - esp newbies.( I'm not sure but I think it had something to do with one of Cinder's threads when she was spinning badly).

I understand completely your worries regarding FW's posts. I myself can see possible problems ahead - it is hard enough to pull a M back together again without lots of others all adding their two pennies worth and asking lots of questions. No two situations are the same and there are some very desparate people on these boards seeking answers BUT I do believe that they can see that BFM and FW's sitch is theirs and their's alone. If posting like this helps FW, (even if it massages his ego possibly at the same time), then so be it.

Imp - I have utmost respect for you and I know you see things with great clarity, but sometimes you do need to let others make their own mistakes, (or not as the case may be). FW obviously feels he is a high achiever and has a lot to offer - I get the feeling he is treating the repair of his M in the same way as he has other things in his life; let time see if that is true without raining on his parade. That's just MHO anways.

I think sometimes when you write you do not fully appreciate quite how strongly you may come across.

I think Bworl's post answers what I am trying to say.

Saffie