Work w/ her, but protect yourself & your kids. There has to be some sort of "civil compromise," but "working w/ her" does not need to mean that you compromise your integrity or YOU and the kids.

How did you find out that someone was hacking into the computer?

So, her mom is supportive of her in the D process?

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10