Ok, I will say that my marriage is rocky at best. I would like to lay out a scenario and you all tell me if it is wrong. We have always had everything in both of our names. Joint accounts, mortgage, car loans, etc. If I were to open a checking account in my name only just to have something in just my name and did not disclose it, do you think it would be wrong? Would keeping it a secret by having the statement mailed somewhere else be crossing the line? Not that I would put any real money in it, but just to have it in case I needed an account quickly. If my wife found out about it could she reasonably see this as sneaky and a betrayal and as a "one foot out the door" type of action?


Gone the carvings and those who left their mark.
Gone the kings and queens, now only the rats hold sway.