great advice, I will do my best. What you are suggesting is what I plan to do, I don't really plan on sitting down and having a long discussion about it. I plan on saying as little as possible to get my point across and then STFU. I see what you are saying how I have to be very careful with how I word things. If she starts attacking, I plan on using the mantra 'I am doing what I have to do, you do what you have to do to make you happy' and then STFU and PMA.
W already knows that I plan to be back on weekends, it was an agreement for the kids but we need to put our agreements in writing if I go, I know that, C suggested that as well.
My spare bedroom when I return will be 'bunking' with my son. It's really the only choice I have at the moment.
I really think me living seperately in the apt for 60 days (IHD)will work out best, but she has to know that I plan on returning. I can't leave the agreement like it is now.
_________________________ Me: 38 W: 36 R 16 M 12 2 kids: S6, D4 Bomb: 10/22/07 Sep: 12/11/07 My First Thread, My Story
