I know where you are coming from. My H is just the same - it's just like having another child. I just ordered the book Passionate Marriage that I saw someone else highly recommended on another thread. I hope it helps. You cannot be all things to all people howvere much you try. You have to have some YOU time in there too.
(((((HUGS))))))
Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
