OK - this is great news. I think this is what most LBS live for - a final chance to do M the right way. For so many WAS, once they get on a course, they wont get off for a long time. Your W came to the realization early that she will not find peace without trying to save the marriage.
1. Start combing through DR book, now. The book is written as a tool to prevent D - though most of us find it a few days or a few weeks too late. There is tons of info there.
2. You need Gary Chapman's book - Five Love Languages. This is one you both need to read and learn.
3. Get yourself a good, easy to read Bible. You tried marriage you way - now try it the right way. Look for either a New Living Translation or an Amplified Version. And when you are ready for specific resources for healing the marriage, ask. Spirituality is something you have to want. It cant be force fed. But when you understand that all your issues, you W issues, my issues are already written about - finding peace, comfort, spirituality and God is easy.
Last edited by I_Wanna_Make_It_Work; 12/06/0703:18 PM.
Me - 43 and She -36. No kids. Married 7 yrs - Together 14 yrs