WAW does not want to try

[Heimlich]

That's awesome. Couple of thoughts:

1. Retrouvaille
2. Try the marriagebuilders.com site. A lot of the concepts overlap with DBing, and it's more oriented to rebuilding a marriage.
3. Try the Mort Fertel book, "Put Love First". My W wouldn't do it with me, but I think it's a pretty good strategy for sparking love again.
4. The Gottmans have some really good books on the subject. Do a search on Amazon and take a look.

I think you've got a green light. Take it slow, and go the speed limit, but that's a huge step on your W's part.

Other's have had similar turnarounds, and had their W's waffle back and forth, so you're not out of the woods yet. Keep up focusing on improving yourself and giving her space as she wants it. That said, that's a pretty strong statement from you W.

Very happy for you.

BD