I actually haven't thought about dh in a few hours. Last night i found out that my 16 year old daughter was doing some questionable things that she knows she shouldn't be. They have serious consequences and she has been warned before. Well, I found out and called her dad and all hell broke loose. My exdh was spineless to say the least and she lashed all of her anger and hatred because I ratted her out once again towards me. She was vicious...I ruined her life, she hates me, everyone hates me, and she wants to live with her dad. Her dad sat and just took it. He knew what she had done and it was partly his fault as it was something that happened right under his nose. My daughter wants to now live with him....before all of this she was fine. When she was spewing her hatred he just sat there and told her that wasn't helping. He should have shut her down. Her dad is a God to her as he is so stupid and believes everything she tells him.
I have gotten no sleep. I am exhausted. Between this and dealing with dh I am barely functioning. I hate the thought of my daughter going to live with her dad. I will miss her terribly, I am hurt but she is allowed to run free and am afraid of what will happen.
For those who are confused...my kids dad is not the dh I talk about here....he is my second husband.
Last edited by Startingover2; 12/06/0703:11 PM.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
