I hear what you are saying and noone knows your R better than you.
I understand that there are more important issues to address before physical intamacy can be brought in to the picture.
I applaud you at your patients with your W while she is working on her issues. even the derogatory comments she makes to you are baby steps as she is proccessing the situations.
In my sitch H is still having a hard time with communicating anything. I do think that he is working on it and i have given the letter the 48 hour rule and have decided that i will talk to him instead and keep the convo. strictly about his needs and and about how i feel about how far we have come and ask what he feels needs to be done. He will be home this evevning. I still plan to go do my GAL activities this weekend.
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
