its true, you need to protect yourself and if need be, the gloves will have to come off if she gets nasty.
she is HOPING to find some sort of an excuse.. but there won't be any, although Im sure she will come up with some screwed up sort of reality of why this all happend, they always do.
You have changed and you are not the same person you once were.. a much much stronger person, and probably like the rest of us a more cynical one.
My hope for you is that you are able to move on with or without her, and that your kids remain close to you. They need their daddy.
safe flight home my friend.
(((hugs)))
Tal
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.