mark, I'm so sorry. spend a minute if you have it and soak up those last rays of so cal sunshine and just breathe.
okay, now that you are done choking on the smog that comes with the sun, get bundled up, 'cause baby, its cold outside.
I wish I had words of wisdom for you. I am trying to walk that line, too...being amicable, but protecting myself. its a hard line to walk. what I've decided to do is work with h for as long as it feels right and I do feel like I am protecting my own best interests, too, but if it doesn't, well, then I go for my lawyer/his lawyer. working with him, btw, doesn't mean I lay my cards on the table. granted, I don't have a lot to hide. in fact, nothing, really. other than this site, which I'd prefer he not find just because I like you all and want to keep being able to be open and get support here.
take care, mark. safe flight!
M-41 H-38 M-10 years, T-14 years Bomb-PA 3/19/07 Separated-6/7/07 Piecing/h back home 5/08 S-6 S-4 D-4
"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"