((((((((((((IMP)))))))))))))) It has been sometime you and I have talked... your right about me taking the steps to get the Divorce I can take those steps but I chose not to, first then man I am living with has known this since the day I met him, that divorce was not in the picture for me..
as for Sh#$t or get off the pot LMAO my husband and I agreed getting a divorce would not benefit me at this time I have to much to loose like my life time health bens,pension, you see IMP I never worked outside the marriage even though I work now.. I do not collect any child support from him, I know he is there for our son if he needs anything.. it works for us.. the new man understands this I have never kept this from him ..
You see IMP I have also learned from all of this to protect myself to look out for me, that there are no guarantees in life and to look out for yourself protect yourself.. Something I did not do before this crisis.. and my husband feels the same way, and the new man in my life understands where I am coming from if he didn't he would not be here...
my husband myself and the new man all get along very nice, they both like each other and help each other out at times with different things it works for all of us...
Family and friends sometimes shake their heads at us not understanding how we all can be friends this way but it works for all of us and life is running smooth for all so why mess with a good thing?
Hugs to you IMP you know how I loved when you put it right out there....
