The day got worse before it go better...To sum it up.. won't get into every detail.. he is extremely needy person. He thinks that I love him, but im not IN love with him, go figure
Actually, sometimes I think that is true and maybe im not even seeing it because of the rut ive been in with him.
Regardless, I do love him, he also says that he feels that I don't like to hang with him or be with him... I don't know where he gets this from???He says that I don't "want" him. It all goes back to the sex thing... We had an off wk.. so he takes it that I don't want to be with him and that he feels inadequate... I swear he has a complex.
He totally exhausts me. The fight did get so bad that I told him we should seperate because I just couldn't take the constant issues he has with me. He then calmed down and said he wants to be with me and just wants to be wanted..
I don't know what to do. I've been more attentive to him the last day or so, I'm going to try and be more aware of it.. what more can I do?? everybody wants mommy to give them attention.. and im getting burned out.
Tal
I don't know how to help him or make him know that I do want to be with him.
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
