Recently you mentioned that you thought the reason W didn't ask about your housing prospects, was b/c she wasn't interested. I, like Pud, said that she is more than likely afraid to think about, let alone discuss, the very real outcome of splitting assets up & the buying of new homes, etc., even if it is her wanting the split.
A combination of truly acting AS IF, showing the supportive, agreeable, happy CVA, & delicately working through whatever she wants addressed might be something you may try. Doesn't mean you have to give anything away, just that she wouldn't take it as punishing her. Something along the lines of the e-mail you told me you wrote her late this afternoon that was very supportive of her taking the kids to Dallas during the holidays. In fact, I think you even mentioned that she might want to take off sooner than the 27th & that would be fine with you. That's a step in the right direction, I believe.
So yes, go have a beer w/Nomo, slow down your actions & re-group. I know how charming you can be, you have me sold for sure.....on to your W.
