Let me say, along with his MLC I think your EX is bipolar. He has so many mood swings! One minute he likes you, the next he hates you. He's obviously a very unhappy, unstable, mixed up soul. Good for you for standing up to him. My suggestion is to keep it business-like. You know what you are due. Ask him nicely, twice, and then let it be until he is in one of his "good" moods. That shouldn't take too long... he changes like the weather. Then "remind" him once more. If he blows you off after that, go for the throat. Maybe you'll luck out and get that same judge who was so enamored of your ex during your divorce.
As for the Rat reading his email, what poetic justice! What's the matter with her? Me thinks she may be suffering with some "trust issues." You know the old adage, "If he'll do it with you, he'll do it to you." I think that came from Dr.Phil. And NKK is mad at you for letting the cat out of the bag about his cheating profile on Match? Are you joking! He is so pathetic! Isn't there something satisfying in knowing that they both have to live their lives checking up on each other because their relationship was based on cheating and lying. I love it!! Oh, there truly are repercussions for all the choices we make in life.
So sorry about your uncle. This is a tough time of year for such a loss.
Hang in there, Honey. Don't let the Nutty Koo Koo get you down.
Hugs,
Spitty
Always do right. This will gratify some people, and astonish the rest. Mark Twain