Cliffy,
It sure does sound like you need the separation. The frustration comes from a lack of true detachment from her sitch. She is obviously conflicted and is riding her own personal roller-coaster. Just stick to your path and try to stay detached.

BTW, I have been using yoga breathing/meditation techniques to just let these waves of frustration roll over me, feel them, experience them, and let them go. Works wonders for me, after a minute or so, it is over and I am back to Mr. PMA! If you try it, you might like it, esp. if you find a class full of hot, limber women! ;\)

SD

Me 41
W 41
Kids: S9 S7
Married 16 years
Bomb dropped 2/2/07
Still living together!
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