That is good that you are working on GAL but possibly work on your PMA. But remember baby steps too, that is the hard part not over reacting to something that you feel is the most wonderful thing in the world that she has done for you. If there is something like that, that does happen post it here, there are alot of great cheerleaders out there. How have the flowers and etc. been recieved on thursdays? Just wondering. Now for you two sleeping in seperate rooms I guess if that is what she wants that is what you will have to do. Look at the positive in that at least she is still at home with you. She could have just moved out. When my H was having his A he was on third shift so the sleeping thing was never a problem for us, but even now there was never a time that I thought I could not sleep with him. Ok you mentioned that you are being treated for depression are you on any meds for that? The reason I ask is that when I was on depression meds I could not sleep for anything. I tried changing the time of day that I took them and everything. The only thing that worked for me was to get off of them. You may want to talk to your Dr. about that, he may give you a different one or may give you a sleep aid. Which the sleep at will work for a while but definatly not meant to be taken for a long period of time. Now your daughter, you said that she has been feeling sick and the dr.'s have come to the conclusion that it's stress. Is she in any kind of counseling? That may benifit her greatly to talk openly to somebody about the things that she is observing going on between you and your wife. You can try and shield her as much as possible but kids are smarter than you think, they pick up on the littles changes in our behavior. You don't want her to keep things all bottled up, and she probably is not comfortable enough with either you or your wife to talk about this kind of thing. Just my two cents. But all in all it seems like you have it together more than you had a bit ago.
