Adventures of Supermom...JennyF's 2nd thread

[blindsided1]

Jenny
I finally got around to reading your posts. Thank you for posting on my thread before. I'm sorry that I have not returned the favor. I have no advice for you. I am in the same place. My sitch is different because I'm only 11 weeks pregnant at this point. I am still in the stage of trying to woo him back by spending time with him and telling him that the person he saw on the hormones the last 9 months is not the person I really am, he just left before that one came back. I DO admire your strength. I wish I had that strength. The only strength and DB principle I seem to be able to stick to is not calling or texting him. It's still very hard to not text him back or take his call when he reaches out to me. But, it is usually about money (he is constantly broke) or sex. Even though he left me and moved in with OW, he still wants sex from me. WTF??? is right. I dwell on him and the OW and everyone and everything tells me that it's a crazy sitch for him. She seems very needy, pretty desperate to allow a man you've only known for 3 weeks move into your home (where your children are part of the time) and she even pays his rent and paid his tuition. Better her than me. But, sometimes I wish it was still me. Okay, a lot of the time.

I hope that reading your thread will give me the inspiration to become stronger. You should hear the crap he is spewing about me breast feeding (he says that it's my body that will decide how long I breast feed) and questioning why I'm going to take the whole 12 weeks of maternity leave. I know that OW is putting this s**t in his head. Whatever. I hope they make each other miserable. Sorry, I'm bitter.

If and when I come to my senses, I will definitely post more on your thread.