Wow, DomR! You have really put a lot of time, thought, and work into all of this. I appreciate it very much. I have never had anyone to do this for me before. It makes me feel very lucky to have someone that cares as much as you do.

I will do it. Timing is so important with my H and me so I have to be sure I do it the right time. I am nervous about it b/c he is very sensitive about his work. Whenever I say anything about how little he works, he uses his health or the weather or just lack of work as his excuse. However, I know that he has had calls for him regading jobs that he never followed up on....so that upsets me. Not leaving until noon to go to his job upsets me also.

Anway, like you said, I will need a lot of PMA and not have this WAW feeling that I've had lately. So, I've got to get myself primed.


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!