It sucks because my W was daring me to do it when we were arguing a few days before. I think she feels too guilty to do it herself so if I do it, it validates her R with OM and her choice to pick him over me.

It prevents her from feeling the guilt and makes her the victim so to speak. That way, I become the villian and she feels like I have abandoned our M, so there is OM waiting to take care of her.

Sad.

Hurtin: 32
WAW: 30
D: 8
Bomb: 10/05
Sep: 12/05
Back together 8/07
Bomb (OM): 11/07
Filed for D (me): 12/07