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husband,

email me Leo. It's all a matter of perspective how you view them. I really look forward to them.

I loved the doggy position email as well.

I am in the dog house with my H at the moment - will explain more tonmorrow - I am feeling very low at the moment and am going to bed.

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Hey saffie,

Hope ya feel better. After 1200 mil Motrin my head ache went away. It' back. Trying to wait until w is in her room watching her soaps to let her know about next weekend. Or I would be right behind you in bed right now. (My bed)

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Let us know how your head is, and how your talk with W went.

saffie, HUGS

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Ok,

I told W about next week end. Well sort of. I was talking to her about my eye hurting and I have had this killer head ache for two days. I said I hope I am not commong down with the flu/ She said "well you have some kind of virus" I said I hope not some freinds are going to be in town next weekend and I want to spend some time with them.
Ok I did not come right out and say it but I did sort of.
So the meet is on......

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Hey Saffie & yoyo,
Ya got mail.
Still have the head ache and my eye keeps on watering but I made it through the night. NOTHING is going to kep me from this weekend of food, wine (beer) and women......
IT"S RAINING...Man I hope Nikki has that fire place in her room all warmed up...... \:\)

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Husband,
What was her response when you mentioned spending time with some friends next weekend? I would suggest being upfront with her. She might not like the idea of you spending the weekend with friends, but tough. It's your life right?

If you wait til the last minute to let her know these are really firm plans, I think she is more likely to think that you've been holding it back for a reason. She has no reason to not trust you right? Why give her a reason to think that you are trying to hide something?

BTW,
I liked seeing the horoscopes. I think I look at them the same way as you. I let the the good ones give me inspiration and don't pay too much attention to the bad ones. I guess I could just find them myself if you stop posting them.

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Hey Hope,

Thanks, we will see about the scopes, I will bring it up agian soon to W about this weekend. But....... I am kind of, maybe a little, sort of... thinking... that maybe a little "who is he seeing, what will they be doing?" may be a little good for the W shake her world a little.

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where's this guy hiding?


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Hey Red,

Not hiding, I have had this head ache since Saturday. Called doctor and they toldme to wait a few more days.
Hop,
I told W that I was meeting with friends from my "support group" on Friday night and then spending the day Saturday and then going out to dinner with them on Saturday night. She did not have much to say. In fact she said nothing. Now because of the weather and one being sick Friday was canceled but we still might make it Saturday. It kind of makes me feel like I back slid a little. I have not told W yet that Friday is canceled , and no I am not going out anyway. I'll let her know soon or may not say anything at all and se if she asks. I think she may think I was bluffing.
be back soon.

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H - why wouldn't you go out anyway?


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