I'm sorry man, this is so funny. I'm pretty frugal, I have huge school loans. So W left with a fully paid for Toyota Camry. Wasn't a sporty car or nothin, but what does she do, go and buy a VW convertable and get a 5 year loan on it. Then tried to ask for alimony, lol.
Also stick to your guns and protect yourself, you should talk to your attorney about being liable on anything from when you filed or seperated. You don't want to get stuck with all this new crap.
When I was at the darkest with my W, I know most of it was myself more so then hear. I was so sick of her BS that I quit talking, looking at her, etc. Well eventually I decided for my S's sake I better at least become amicable. Was able to do that. Then went from Amicable to starting to build a friendship, seems to getting their. Then I will go from friend to hopefully girlfriend. Wow that sounds freak'n weird. But the thing was it was one step at a time, just a hey he isn't feeling well today, so here is some med's can you give him some in 2 hours? Start small, expect nothing. Prepare for the worst and hope for the best. Sit back and just laugh about her craziness, that helped me.
