Our children are really our blessings - they are the only thing that have ever made my H's OW do a double take. Whatever I did or said was like water off a duck's back. She didn't even appear to care about her own children but then they were too young to really understand. I know if she was dead my kids would dance on her grave - which isn't nice but I don't care. I hope the woman rots in hell eventually.
On a nicer note, hi to all you guys. Fighting some demons at the moment so I haven't been on much. A close friend who was only my age died on Monday. It wasn't an accident, she was ill but no-one expected her to die yet. She was working two jobs and trapped in a M with a man who had no for her or compassion. She left behind boys aged 15 and 13. It has hit me very hard. I deal with her business dealings so have some stuff to finish up for her and it's very painful - I find it hard to interact with her H knowing how much of a living hell he made her life. It shows me how lucky I am to have the love of my H.
Take care all of you. You are very much in my thoughts - even when I don't post. Those of you that have got my email, (or know me - it's in my profile), drop me a line if you feel like it. It is always nice to log on to some friendly communications.
God Bless
Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
