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Good let her just keep thinking. Be mysterious and have fun! : ) I am sure it has to bother her BIG TIME about you moving on. She wouldn't ask otherwise. Because let me tell you after my ex and I were seperated I could have cared less if he talking or sleeping with 100 women. I was done! I was out of love and I didn't care.

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Yeah.. she actually told a mutual friend that she couldn't see me with anyone else because we were together so long. I guess what's good for the Goose isn't so good for the Gander?

She's also complained to several people (her mom included) that I may be dating.

Everyone's reaction is.. "Well.. aren't you?"

I am having fun with it!!



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jar, that's good she is complaining about it, it means she is thinking about it big time.

How are the D's?

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D's are doing great. They got to play a little in the snow this morning. D3 is just tooo cute.

She told me a while back that she figures when I meet another woman, I'll be gone.

I'm not going to tell her this, but I have no interest in a serious relationship any time soon. Yes I would like to "hang out" with someone, but it would be just that.. having fun.. maybe a dinner or something like that. Other than that.. I want to get back to the old me. The me before all the pressures of life made me too serious. I firmly believe this is part of my and our problems. Before "life", I was a goofball.. always had fun.. always made people laugh. I'm starting to get some of that back. Somebody actually said the other day "You should be a comedian". Something I used to hear all the time back in the day.

Key will be.. once I get back to it to always remember it. Life is too short. Everything will still be there.. well.. almost everything.

Anybody up for a snowball fight? \:\)



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(just threw a snowball at the back of your head.......man I used to hate when the snow went down in your neck and started melting...lol)

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but I have no interest in a serious relationship any time soon.


I second this. But our spouses can't see this because they hopped into an R so fast their head spun.

Yay for snow and kids. I still have such fond memories....

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Ouch!! It stings... It stings!!! ;\)

Cold, wet feet... the only thing that would make Jarhead whine in the snow!!

Yeah.. W actually said this about our D's "I don't want our daughters thinking it's acceptable to go from man to man"

WTF?? HELLO??? I think that's her mom talking. W isn't that eloquent.

Yay for the snow!! Realized something though.. I have no snow clothes for them!!

This will need to be rectified before I take them tubing at Big Fake Snow Mountain!!



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Looooong throw from over the ocean. And.........damn I missed!

Have fun in the snow, somehow wet and rainy just doesn't cut it.


Paul

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Kids m8, f5

Bomb: 4/07
Despair to Hope: 4/07 - ongoing

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And isn't it the way when you NEED the winter garb-snowpants, boots, waterproof gloves...everywhere is out! Hurry and get the garb. \:\)

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I miss the snow. I grew up in the north so always loved the snow.
Glad you are having fun. You whole attitude seems to be lighter and happier.

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I agree with Trying... you seem so confident Jarhead, good job on detaching.


Hurtin: 32
WAW: 30
D: 8
Bomb: 10/05
Sep: 12/05
Back together 8/07
Bomb (OM): 11/07
Filed for D (me): 12/07
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