Honestly, the OW is not a big factor in this to me. If you would have asked me that a week ago, she was. But after I confronted him about still having contact with her and him lying and then being out all night with who knows when I was in hospital it all became secondary. What bothers me more now is his character. He cannot offer me consistency, stablility or honesty. He is too busy being validated by other women and acting like a 19 year old frat boy.
Sure I am very sad and very disappointed. I told him right from the beginning of this pregnancy that he didn't have to do this with me, but he said he wanted another chance and I believed him. What I didn't know is he has been cake eating since the beginning. What I should say is deep down I knew he was cake eating and gave him chance after chance and looked the other way.
I never responded to his text today. I am not hearing that he is sorry, that he is really willing to meet my needs, or get help for the drinking. He is just trying to keep his foot in the door and keep his 'dad' badge.
Last edited by Startingover2; 12/05/0711:07 PM.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
