Long and bumpy road

[blindsided1]

I'm right there with you. You are right and I feel the same. What kind of person does this to someone? The holiday's suck. At least you have kids and get to see their happy little faces. My H texted me this morning too to see how I was, I ignored it and he hasn't texted again. My girlfriend said something that I try to always remember "life if what it is, plan for surprises". So, that is what I try to do. I try to plan for the surprises. How did you deal with the OW? It is eating me up inside. I obsess about them and what they are doing. I know it doesn't hurt anyone but myself, but somedays I can't seem to do anything but think about it. Life was not supposed to be this way. I'm just trying to learn the lesson and let it go. Easier said than done.