CVA - Moving On

[Not Much Left]

Ok, thanks my friends
A lot of truth. I am just so worn out by all this...Nomo, CVA thinks you are right, my tone is LOUD and CLEAR. I will support the Dallas thing happily as I know what it means to her.

So, what I was thinking was that I should approach it in a joint fashion, "W, can wee work through a budget that works for you and the kids given the situation of me getting a house and just go line by line...the obvious stuff falls out...Maid etc."

Yes, no?

I truly am trying my best at NOT being vindictive and "punishing" her. Sometimes Mr. Control says, "hey, the only thing you control here is the cash so...." That would be the devil on my shoulder when the other side says, "CVA, now, now now, you control your emotions, take the high road, be firm but fair and reasonable"....Dont you all struggle with those thoughts? Am I the only one?

This pretty much boils down to one "feeling" that I have, I must be SO bad that she is willing to do all this to get away from me. Please no 2x4s, its a feeling that will take time to heal and not being in her head, I dont know that she even has thought about all the ramification rationally to come to that conclusion.

Thanks for your thoughts and tough love.

C