Amy- I expect you've been following what's been going on on dar's thread since this morning's (not unexpected) blow-up. I just wanted to say that I think you did a good job of forcing the issue, and I think that the ball is really in her court now. I think she is finally seeing that this is really much more about her than him. I hope so anyway. Your prodding yesterday, and the wake up call you posted seems to have really helped her see better, and it helped 'us' get closer the the bottom (I'm sure there's more) or her issues. Anyway, your are prety smart!
OJ
Oh, and I think jab is much better off today, too. Still in a mess, but he is much more in control of himself. So he says thanks, to, thouogh he probably doesn't know it!
