I think that breaking off all contact for a period would be very beneficial to you. You need some time and space without someone messing with your thoughts and feelings. At least it would allow you to regain control over your life and work out how you want to move things forwards in a calm, measured fashion.
Good luck with it.
Max
Me 36 W 37 Bomb (Easter 07) Sep (WAW July 07) "It's over" (end Oct 07) T10.5 years, M2 (before bomb)
