It's time to shake it up. I am going to tell her about what I want tonight in terms of expenses, calmly, rationally but like it is. No more full time maid, no more pool service, limiting dinners out the works.
*SHE* needs to come up with her own budget and do some work to show me what she wants.
Should be interesting to see how this unfolds, since it is a new way for you to address the fact that it will be a different world for both of you after D, & changes will have to be made.
Let us know how the talk goes tonight. Calm & rational is the way to go, as you're intending.
