She has certainly done a 180 on helping out at home , I have no idea why at this stage
Sounds like you're doing well Dave, as you say, "don't get too hung up on what she's doing", is the way to go. Attempting to figure out the "why's" is counterproductive at best. They seem to sense when the focus is on them & head the other direction, whereas when you get off the roundabout & go on your own happy way they're drawn back.
Great that you're having the friendly interactions & you're keeping focused on your goals. I'm guessing that having W planted on the sofa all day is a little taxing, although a good opportunity to show your changes.
