Give her a call. My mc was usually good about returning calls the same day. I think it's perfectly acceptable to tell her "I've been thinking about this, but don't think w will hear it from me. What do you think? Is this something you can approach her with in our next appt?"
She will or she won't. But, your wife will likely be more receptive to her. Did your wife buy the books mc recommended? Did you?
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."