OMG! H has always been the type of guy to look at other women, he is a real rubbernecker.
Boy, could go two ways on this as my H was/is the same way.
Yes, maybe we are not the best, maybe we a just human. But the other side is do I want to be married to some one who doesn't think I am the best for him? In other words, has a lack of real commitment and is always thinking the grass is greener.
