Thanks for the feedback. I did ask her when her interview was and did not grumble. When she had previous interviews I tried to be positive and tell her good things -- but I went too far "You are so qualified, I am sure you will get an offer..."
I think that me being independant is helpful -- she took care of everything and took it for granted. We are separated by dictance so we don't see each other often, but I know she has noticed new clothes that i have.
I am working and have made progress on the elusive part. Not jumping to respond to any texts or e-mails. Also really trying not to think up things to ask her just so I could initiate contact.
Great analogy on the desert! Just wondering, is that glass half full or half empty? :-)
