bump, so you notice I posted something while you were posting.

You seem to be stuck in WAW mode, due to the "he will never change" track.

I can tell you from personal experience, that you are mistaken.

So... first identify WHAT (top 3 things) you really need to have change, for you to be happier in your marriage. Then, we can talk further about "how".

Last edited by Dom R; 12/05/07 08:59 PM.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle